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Learn About Yourself From Rising Gas Prices

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Gas prices are going up. Again. So what?

Here’s the thing about rising gas prices - we still pay them. I still pay them, in some form. And truthfully, I’m done talking about rising gas prices, because I’m comfortable with my gas consumption and the costs associated with it. But I also don’t drive a car much these days, and people who drive a lot seem to be more upset about rising gas prices than anyone else.

What do rising gas prices have to do with personal development? Plenty. Because if you react negatively to rising gas prices that might give you insight to how you react in other situations too.

Do You Complain?

We don’t need as much gas as we consume to survive. Water definitely, food comes second, shelter is pretty nice too. But gas? Not so much.

We already know this, right? So what gets to me is people who complain about the prices of gas and then line up at the pump to pay them. Doesn’t make sense, when there are alternatives to driving your car everywhere, the least utilized of which are attached to the lower half of your body. For other cheap alternatives, try biking, skateboarding, roller blading, carpools, scooters, buses, trains, and planes. Some may still use gas, but the cost is lower or split.

And really, we complain because we think it’s justified. In all aspects of life, not just rising gas prices. But if we were justified in our complaints then we would have good reason to stop buying gas. Since we keep buying it, rising gas prices isn’t a good enough reason yet. Maybe when it hits $10 a gallon?

Do You Blame?

Who is responsible for rising gas prices? The government? Bush? The war on Iraq? SUV owners? Greedy gas companies?

I’m no economist, but I don’t think any of them are truly to blame for gas prices. We love to point fingers at others when things go wrong, but sometimes the problem is ourselves. So maybe the person to blame for rising gas prices is you. And him, and her, and me. Because each of us has the power to lower gas prices; we just lower our demand for it. For anyone who has studied even basic microeconomics, lower demand = higher supply = lower prices.

So shift the curves, not the blame. The beauty of free markets is the power lies with the people.

Do You Make Excuses?

Every time I talk about commuting or public transportation, I get people telling me reasons about why they can’t make the switch. Like their town doesn’t have public transportation, or their job/home is not on a public transportation route.

Here’s my response to those excuses: Move. Or change jobs. Because frankly, we each have our priorities, and excuses are for people who want to pretend something is a priority for them when it really isn’t. And if commuting costs are truly a priority, people have factored that into their work/life choices already, right?

So if using less gas is not a priority for you, that’s okay. Just admit it yourself. And stop worrying so much about what other people think. Be honest with yourself and others about why you chose whatever else you did over using less gas, because that something is probably important to you, and part of growing is knowing where your priorities lie.

Want lower gas prices? Do something about it. It may just help you succeed in other areas of your life too, like if you get stuck on an escalator.

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All You Need Is Love

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On Thursday, November 14th, 2008, a normal day at Northern Illinois University, Valentines Day, something terrible happened. A shooter killed six innocent students in a hellish manner. The details are not important, but the reaction is.

Only two things can come out of a situation like this: fear or strength. As a student of NIU, it was important for me to do my part to show my fellow students how much we all care and will stay strong during such a crisis. My friends and I made simple signs with the words “May Angels Lead You In” and “Hate Nothing But Hate” and stood outside the Holmes Student Center memorial to send our condolences and our feelings to the victims. I was pleased to see that others were also doing their part. There were plenty of signs and notes that gave messages of hope and love which reminded me just how great of a place DeKalb is.

I think it is obvious that what happened at my school last week was terrifying and should never happen, but how do we stop it? I would like to look back at one of the quotes we put on a sign, “Hate Nothing But Hate.” I believe the only way we are going to prevent these types of hate crimes in the future is by loving one another. Hatred does not justify any such crime as killing another person; however, the shooter’s hatred probably resulted from other peoples’ hatred towards him.

This is where the problem lies. Everyone needs to drop their prejudices and just love one another. Stop looking at color, physical attributes, and gender to make decisions about what makes a good person.

With that said, God Bless and take care.

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So This Is The New Year

“The New Year” is one of my favorite songs from Death Cab For Cutie.  Whether you like this type of music or not, the message is an important one - that a new year doesn’t change us into different people.  This means that whatever held us back from achieving last year’s resolutions, unless addressed, will hold us back again this year.  Trying to change an aspect of your life using just your resolve is bad, because resolve loses steam quickly.  Instead, why not create goals and develop a solid plan to achieve them this year?  There is plenty of food for thought right here on Twenty Set to help you plan and reach your goals.  What have you got to lose?

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