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Editor’s Note: This post about presentation skills comes from Aida, who writes regularly about millennial issues with four other talented women at their blog, Life Before Noon.
At some point we will have to stand in front of a group of people and talk. It could be a carefully planned-out presentation or someone asking for your opinion. For some of us this comes naturally. The greater majority, however, believe that speaking in public is the most horrible experience, ever. What is it about public speaking that makes some of the most otherwise confident individuals crumble? I can’t answer this question because each person is different in their reasons for dreading public speaking.
As a communication studies major and a student speech consultant at my university’s Communication Resource Center, I have a fair amount of experience with presenting and observing speeches and presentations. I am in no way part of the group of people where public speaking comes naturally. My freshmen year at James Madison University (JMU) I was enrolled in GCOM 121, General Human Communication: Principles and Practices. I had to do three speeches in front of juniors and seniors my first semester at school. Horrible is not the word I would use to describe my experience. Near panic attack paints a more accurate picture. But, I survived.
Being a competent and effective communicator is an important skill. Employers constantly list excellent communication and written and verbal skills as part of the qualities they look for in potential employees. Communication is also important in our relationships. Being able to express yourself can help make interactions with others more successful. As I have had to learn, becoming a better communicator and more specifically a better public speaker takes lots of work.
Here are a few things to help you work at improving your communication skills:
1. Know your audience. Who your audience is will help determine how you will deliver your message. Tailor your message so your audience can relate with the topic.
2. Know your topic. People know when you have no idea what you’re talking about. Save the embarrassment for someone else and do some research. Find credible sources and have accurate results that show you know what you’re talking about. Knowing your audience will help you find the information you need.
3. Eye contact. Make it. Eye contact is not looking above your audience’s head. Actually look at your audience. It will be okay, they aren’t that scary. With eye contact, you establish yourself as a credible source and when you look at people you get feedback. If something doesn’t make sense you can gage that through a person’s facial expression.
4. Practice makes perfect. Practice in front of a mirror, in front of other people. I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to practice. It will give you a chance to see where you need more information or what doesn’t go as well together. Practicing in front of people can also make you aware of some of the things you do, like shift from foot to foot, and help you work out the kinks before the big day.
After countless speeches and presentations, I still get nervous. It is much more subtle instead of the frantic feeling that I might actually die right on the spot. It does take time and effort to make public speaking easier, but it is definitely worth it.
What tips would you add to this list?
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